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		<title>a little insight to my life&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://randommel.com/2010/02/18/a-little-insight-to-my-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 15:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[they say that what we have on our desk says a lot about us. i&#8217;m normally a monica, so the fact that i have so much is quite unusual&#8230; believe me? i&#8217;d love to see what you have on your desks too. oh and out of interest, what sites do you stay logged in to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>they say that what we have on our desk says a lot about us. i&#8217;m normally a monica, so the fact that i have so much is quite unusual&#8230; believe me?</p>
<p><a href="http://randommel.com/2010/02/18/a-little-insight-to-my-life/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p>i&#8217;d love to see what you have on your desks too. oh and out of interest, what sites do you stay logged in to all day? i&#8217;ve found i have a routine&#8230;</p>
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<li>work mail</li>
<li>gmail</li>
<li>twitter</li>
<li>google calendar</li>
<li>google docs</li>
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<p>random, but i just thought i&#8217;d throw it out there!</p>
<p>hope you&#8217;re all awesomesauce. thanks for making me smile <img src='http://randommel.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  x</p>
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		<title>stealing is not condoned&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://randommel.com/2008/07/31/stealing-is-not-condoned/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 13:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[but today&#8217;s an exception&#8230; just remember to give stuff back afterwards! officially that just means that you&#8217;re borrowing it&#8230; well in my books anyway I&#8217;ll stop digging myself a hole now&#8230; all items are being held hostage, to be returned upon realisation that they&#8217;re actually missing in the first place&#8230; after all the bow and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>but today&#8217;s an exception&#8230; just remember to give stuff back afterwards! officially that just means that you&#8217;re borrowing it&#8230; well in my books anyway <img src='http://randommel.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;ll stop digging myself a hole now&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><p><a href="http://randommel.com/2008/07/31/stealing-is-not-condoned/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p></p>
<p>all items are being held hostage, to be returned upon realisation that they&#8217;re actually missing in the first place&#8230; after all the bow and arrow must be essential daily items right?</p>
<p>happy happy thursday lovely people, hope that you&#8217;re having a great week.</p>
<p>m x</p>
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		<title>laugh at my expense&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://randommel.com/2008/07/29/laugh-at-my-expense/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 13:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[the one and only vero pepperrell kindly pointed me to an interview that the guys from freshbooks did with me at fowa miami earlier this year. i&#8217;m actually speaking in this video and it might give you an indicator as to why my weekly videos are done in mute! oh you should probably know before [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the one and only <a title="That Canadian Girl" href="http://www.thatcanadiangirl.co.uk">vero pepperrell</a> kindly pointed me to an interview that the guys from <a title="Freshbooks" href="http://www.freshbooks.com">freshbooks</a> did with me at <a title="FOWA Miami" href="http://futureofwebapps.com/2008/miami/pastevents.php">fowa miami</a> earlier this year. i&#8217;m actually speaking in this video and it might give you an indicator as to why my weekly videos are done in mute!</p>
<p>oh you should probably know before you watch that i&#8217;m incredibly drunk, although you probably would have sussed that for yourself.</p>
<p><a href="http://randommel.com/2008/07/29/laugh-at-my-expense/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p>now yes, i can hear your chuckling. i know i was terribly drunk. i know that i could hardly stand and yes, yes, i know that texas is not north america&#8230; it was humour in my drunken state.</p>
<p>i hope that it made you chuckle, even if it was at my expense&#8230; taxi!</p>
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		<title>i&#8217;m leaving carsonified&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://randommel.com/2008/06/03/im-leaving-carsonified/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 11:31:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[after almost two years with carsonified, i&#8217;m announcing today that i&#8217;m moving to pastures new. i&#8217;m more proud than words can say to have been part of a team that has gone from a few web apps, workshops and 2 large conferences a year &#8211; to numerous workshops, conferences, expos and web apps. i know [...]]]></description>
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<p>after almost two years with <a title="Carsonified" href="http://www.carsonified.com">carsonified</a>, i&#8217;m announcing today that i&#8217;m moving to pastures new.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m more proud than words can say to have been part of a team that has gone from a few web apps, workshops and 2 large conferences a year &#8211; to numerous workshops, conferences, expos and web apps. i know the effort that goes into each of the events that carsonified lays on and i know that the team will continue to go from strength to strength. i thought it might be quite fun to recap&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>during my time, i&#8217;ve&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>been involved with 7 events</li>
<li>managed 4 events (including the <a title="Future of Web Apps Expo" href="http://futureofwebapps.com/past-events.html#londonOct07">mammoth expo</a>)</li>
<li>met thousands of <a href="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1100/1190522369_10a14ada11_o.jpg">amazing contacts and friends</a></li>
<li>broken or lost 3 iphones (yes i&#8217;m skint now)</li>
<li>stickered up 1092 oranges &#8211; for the <a title="www.thinkvitamin.com oranges" href="http://flickr.com/photos/garethr/401920848/">vitamin stand</a>!</li>
<li><a title="Mel Kirk's Twitter Account" href="http://twitter.com/melkirk">sent 1297 tweets</a></li>
<li>blogged more than i care to remember</li>
<li>been <a href="http://randommel.com/previous-incidents/tequila-girl/">mistaken for a tequila girl at a cold fusion event</a> only once</li>
<li>signed one laptop (that was weird!)</li>
<li>become a pro at updating the site, yes &lt;div&gt;&#8217;s are now my friend rather than my foe</li>
<li>attended 2 SXSW festivals</li>
<li>&#8230;and suffered many hangovers</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>reason for leaving</strong></p>
<p>i know that many people will think that i&#8217;m mad for leaving such a forward thinking company, positioned in my opinion, in one of the best industries in the world.</p>
<p>i&#8217;ve been offered a 6 month contract with the oscar winning <a title="Aardman Animation" href="http://aardman.com">aardman animations</a> (makers of <a title="Wallace &amp; Grommit" href="http://www.wallaceandgromit.com/">wallace and grommit</a>, heck yeah!) looking after their online communities and driving the strategies for their online presence. it&#8217;s an opportunity i feel that i have to take &#8211; i&#8217;m passionate about bringing content to the masses and community work is where my heart is, so i&#8217;m excited to apply this to another industry (whilst still being a web chick of course).</p>
<p>in the long term, i&#8217;d love to have my own consultancy some day &#8211; helping people connect with their users/communities and i think that this is vital experience in helping me along the way &#8211; plus, come on&#8230; it&#8217;s wallace and grommit! the <a title="4mations" href="http://www.4mations.tv/">first project</a> that i am working on will be reaching out to animators, so if you have any work that you&#8217;d like to showcase, remember to keep me in mind&#8230;</p>
<p>my last day with carsonified is 5th June and then i&#8217;ll be out in the wilderness, yikers!</p>
<p><strong>so what now?</strong></p>
<p>i love you guys. i love the web. i love everyone who spends 5 minutes reading my silly blog about things that really don&#8217;t matter. i love the way everyone gets more and more amazed (and often baffled) by my random videos. i know that&#8217;s cheesy but it&#8217;s true. the friendships and connections that i have made over the last couple of years are genuine, i really care about you guys and i hope that they continue and everyone stays in touch.</p>
<p>the web is the best industry in the world. a revolution is taking place. connections are happening between people in the world that couldn&#8217;t be possible if it weren&#8217;t for the sites and technologies that you guys are working on, i&#8217;m so honored to be part of it. man i love the web <img src='http://randommel.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>mel xox</p>
<p>p.s. i think i&#8217;d be quite good at oscar acceptance speeches don&#8217;t you think <img src='http://randommel.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>p.p.s you can stay in touch by&#8230;</p>
<p>twitter: Â  Â  Â Â  www.twitter.com/melkirk<br />
email:Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â  melkirk1 at gmail dot com<br />
facebook:Â Â  mel kirk (bristol)<br />
seesmic:Â Â Â Â  www.seesmic.com/melkirk<br />
aim:Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â  melkirk2006</p>
<p>i&#8217;m basically all over the web!!!</p>
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		<title>intimate details of the new age single girl</title>
		<link>http://randommel.com/2008/05/30/intimate-details-of-the-new-age-single-girl/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 23:01:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ok ok, so i know that this is harsh and probably not something that i should be doing, but here goes&#8230; i&#8217;ll first make things better by making a bit of a confession. having been single for a while, i was discussing the situation with my friends &#8211; explaining that bars just aren&#8217;t the right [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="alignnone" src="http://randommel.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/singleguy.jpg" alt="http://randommel.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/singleguy.jpg" width="500" /></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">ok ok, so i know that this is harsh and probably not something that i should be doing, but here goes&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">i&#8217;ll first make things better by making a bit of a confession. having been single for a while, i was discussing the situation with my friends &#8211; explaining that bars just aren&#8217;t the right places to find someone and when you work for a small company you&#8217;re never going to find someone in work. it was at this point that one of my friends suggested i try an online dating site. now, i&#8217;m aware of the stigma attached to those sites and i said no at least for the first 8 times she suggested it.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">on the 9th time though i broke and agreed to sign up to a site, but refused to post a proper profile or a picture. i just wanted to be nosy and have a gander. 5 minutes after signing up i get an email from the chap above telling my how pretty my picture is and he can&#8217;t believe that i&#8217;m single.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">worried that i had accidentally posted a picture, i check my profile and there&#8217;s definitely nothing there. then i read the email again and it&#8217;s very generic which is when it struck me that it was an email he was cutting and pasting to all of the girls on the site. needless to say i didn&#8217;t respond.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">so here&#8217;s a word of warning for all of you guys and girls out there &#8211; if you&#8217;re going to send a generic email, check the content first and make sure it&#8217;s relevant and if you really want to push the boat out, maybe even use their name&#8230; on a side note, having posters on your walls (including one of ghostbusters and another of a girl in a bikini) is never going to help your case.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">i think i&#8217;d rather remain single thanks &#8211; the quickest signup and withdrawal from a site ever <img src='http://randommel.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align:left;">m x</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">p.s. imagine how awful it would be if he found my blog! it&#8217;s never going to happen is it, but imagine&#8230;!</p>
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