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		<title>tonight i hate the web :(</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 22:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i&#8217;m not a web chick that gets on her high horse and complains that things are unfair. i might be naive but i like to think if you&#8217;re good at what you do, you&#8217;ll be recognised for it &#8211; regardless of your sex. you might hear me on twitter bitching about boys, but it&#8217;s all [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m not a web chick that gets on her high horse and complains that things are unfair. i might be naive but i like to think if you&#8217;re good at what you do, you&#8217;ll be recognised for it &#8211; regardless of your sex. you might hear me on twitter bitching about boys, but it&#8217;s all in jest. in other words, i&#8217;m not a feminist in any way.</p>
<p>all of the above said, tonight i had an experience that i found both disturbing and upsetting. it&#8217;s not the the first time that i had logged on to Ylive and i thought it would be good to log on, chat to some friends and update people about my job given the number of tweets i&#8217;d had asking how it was going.</p>
<p>within a couple of minutes, the chat room was being swarmed by &#8220;anonymous&#8221; users making crude comments about me and what they&#8217;d like to do to me. i&#8217;m not naive and i can normally handle most of that stuff. but people telling me to strip and offering me money to perform acts is in no way acceptable and makes me hate the web.</p>
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<p>i&#8217;m enough of a web-o-holic to not let this deter me. i know that the majority of people are good and it&#8217;s the minority that ruin it for the rest. but somethings for sure, i won&#8217;t be using Ylive again (especially when you find that some of the people making crude comments are also my twitter followers).</p>
<p>sorry for the rant, but the whole situation made me really disappointed. everyday i work to create communities, harmony and open conversations and it can take just a 10 minute experience like that to take so much away again. my final words &#8211; if you&#8217;re going to be a total scum bag and make horrible rude comments, at least have the balls to show your face!</p>
<p>btw &#8211; thanks to @innonate @kastner @jaygreasley @ryancarson @keirwhitaker @grahamgilbert @adamstac @jamfactory @alashcraft for showing up and being nice&#8230; x</p>
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